No one knows how this story will play out, but there is no question that Michael Sam's talent, courage, and strength -- both on and off the field -- are inspiring qualities that will have a momentous effect on knocking down the barriers that prevent all boys from growing up into the men that they were truly meant to be. As parents, coaches, teachers, and counselors, we can all use this cultural phenomenon to examine our own beliefs and values and, even if we do not share someone else's sexual orientation, we can recognize the inherent value of all our fellow humans. You don't have to stay "inside the box" to be a man.